Question: How to develop faith?

Author: Devotee
Date: 2024-02-10
How do you develop faith in walking?
And how do you know that the ground will not fall in?
If you see other people walking
you take a step forward,
you see that you don’t fall into any ditch,
then your faith increases.
It is a practical thing.
We put the knowledge to practice
and then we see the effect.
So, you are studying so maybe it is a new thing for you.
As Śrīla Prabhupāda said, it is a gradual process.
And gradually you increase your faith,
increase your realization.
How fast one can advance
depends on how you put your mind to it.
I was thinking, I was looking for a guru,
and I was going here and there,
so then I thought
unless I try this Kṛṣṇa consciousness fully,
I won’t know for sure.
Let me try
and if it works, alright it is done or otherwise will go on and try something else.
As Rādhe Śyāma said I have been at it for 52 years.
I have never looked back, I have never regretted it.
Category: [Emotions / Faith]

Related Questions

As a part of the preaching session few new devotees had questions about Lord Caitanya Mahāprabhu being Lord Kṛṣṇa Himself. We had shown them the scriptural references from Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam, Garuḍa Purāṇa, etc. But they were not fully convinced. Please could you enlighten us the different ways we can try to make them understand this?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2024-02-19
Jayapatākā Swami: If the person accepts the Vedic literatures as evidence,
then they could be convinced,
after lots of Vedic evidence.
But say, one does not really accept the Vedas,
then just encourage them to chant.
There are lots of evidences in the Vedas and scriptures in the world
that tell us that we should chant the names of God.
When they feel the spiritual bliss of chanting the holy name,
or if they feel some peace
then they may be more convinced.
You see, in the first canto of the Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam
it mentions that if someone
engages in devotional service,
then the causeless knowledge and detachment comes.
So somehow get the people to engage in some service.
Like maybe they are doing it as a social work,
like giving out prasāda to the hungry, to the homeless,
somehow or another they do some service
which they like to do.
Have them do something they like to do.
Then, by doing that,
they get causeless knowledge and detachment.
Maybe we know we can wake someone who is asleep,
but if they are awake pretending they are asleep, you cannot wake them up.
Because they are already awake.
So you may give the knowledge that the Vedas say this,
but if the person doesn’t want to hear,
then it may not be so useful.
I had one person in Assam,
he would meditate in his closet.
He was a believer that he was God.
And in the Bhagavad-gītā in the 14th chapter, last verse it says very clearly
that the Lord is the basis of the impersonal Brahman.
But he could not accept.
But then he liked to do service.
So we engaged him in service.
After a few years, he said you know I am beginning to understand devotional service.
So think of trying to convince someone,
if they have a short circuit in their brain,
they cannot understand,
then just engage them to do some service.
For the last many years I have been practicing, preaching and teaching Bhagavad-gītā to so many people but internally I feel my conviction has weakened and I am not able to practice properly. Wanted to ask how to deal with this situation?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2024-04-27
Jayapatākā Swami: Associate with devotees who have conviction.
You see, since devotional service is a gradual process,
some people naturally would be at different stages.
So some devotees are at a very advanced stage.
A devotee of the Lord (Akrūra), when he saw the footprints of Kṛṣṇa he left his chariot and paid his obeisances to the footprints.
Like that, some devotees are very fixed up.
Try to associate with them.
Category: [Emotions / Enthusiasm], [Emotions / Faith]
How can I develop unwavering faith and love in you and Kṛṣṇa in my heart?
Questioner: Kṛṣṇasevinī Rādhā devī dāsī
Date: 2022-12-02
Jayapatākā Swami: The whole practice of bhakti-yoga is to develop our love for guru and Kṛṣṇa.
It is not a different process.
Same process delivers us
and we should perform devotional service
and naturally if you help the spiritual master
then Kṛṣṇa will be very pleased. 
How can we increase our faith in chanting the holy names and the order of the spiritual master?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-03-13
Jayapatākā Swami: Depends on what gives you faith.
I mean, some people have faith by reading the scripture,
since it tells us that the holy name is Absolute and non-different from Kṛṣṇa.
Some people have faith by realization.
If you chant Hare Kṛṣṇa, you may become peaceful and ecstatic.
And that may increase your faith.
Some people commit offences to the holy name.
So they don’t get the full result of chanting.
And you should tell them to be very careful to follow the order of the spiritual master.
I think the third offence to the holy name is to disobey the order of the spiritual master.
We must have a spiritual master and follow his instructions.
There is no question but to accept the spiritual master.
So Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura had everyone in the temple chant 64 rounds.
Those who went for book distribution and preaching, they should chant 16 rounds.
So Śrīla Prabhupāda said that for the Western rounds it would be difficult to chant 64 rounds.
So he had them chant 16 and preach.
So by following Śrīla Prabhupāda’s instructions, one can advance.
How to become stable and strong when the situations are worse?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2024-02-08
Jayapatākā Swami: Question is how do we be stable and strong when the situation is difficult?
How could you study in college if there are exams?
There will be exams,
you cannot avoid it.
That’s how you get your degree.
If you want to be a devotee,
there will be tests.
It is not a cheap thing, it is a very valuable thing.
So naturally, there will be difficulties.
And don’t be disturbed by that.
It is part of the process.
Category: [Emotions / Enthusiasm], [Emotions / Faith]
How to develop unflinching faith?
Questioner: Vijaya Rādhā devī dāsī
Date: 2022-10-17
How to develop unflinching faith?
Questioner: Vijaya Rādhā devī dāsī
Date: 2022-10-17
Jayapatākā Swami: To associate with devotees
who have unflinching faith.
Otherwise the process of bhakti-yoga
is to gradually increase your faith,
then it becomes unflinching.
How to increase our faith in Kṛṣṇa consciousness and how to get rid of the anarthas?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2024-02-10
Jayapatākā Swami: This question was asked by Arjuna to Kṛṣṇa in the Bhagavad-gītā.
And Kṛṣṇa said that we should take our sword of knowledge and cut the knot of ignorance.
If you read the teachings of Kṛṣṇa,
Bhagavad-gītā and Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam,
and if you regularly chant the holy name,
then naturally you can understand more
and your faith will increase.
But it is also important to have good association.
You associate with people who are Kṛṣṇa conscious
and avoid association with people who are very negative and critical.
One should know the philosophy,
one should know how to help people,
then you can meet with more people and help them.
But if you have a bad association in the beginning then it can be very disruptive.
Category: [Anarthās], [Emotions / Faith]
How we see in this pastime while Lord Caitanya Mahāprabhu has all these mahā-bhāva ecstasies, when we talk about this or discuss with the devotees, sometimes they question that, how is it possible, it is unbelievable! We do have faith, but how to explain to them that it really happened? Or how to make them trust like whatever the words are here, they all are so true?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-10-25
Jayapatākā Swami: That is why Kṛṣṇadāsa Kavirāja is saying that the common men, they not believe.
But Raghunātha dāsa Gosvāmī and others have seen that,
so Kṛṣṇadāsa Kavirāja says, I accept it, I believe it!
I BELIEVE!
These are things that we just have to believe.
If people don’t believe it, maybe, there are other things that Lord Caitanya did,
which are believable,
and mentioned in the śāstra,
but that I witnessed and saw these uncommon transformations of Lord Caitanya, His body.
So the author accepts, if you want to accept or not that is your free will.
He gives his reason why he accepts.
We know one thing that Lord Caitanya was uncommon. Haribol!
Haribol!
Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu kī jaya!
I am from a Christian background and now he is a new devotee and Kṛṣṇa conscious. How to increase my inspiration and enthusiasm to practice Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2024-05-13
Jayapatākā Swami: You see my mother was a Christian and very active in a Church.
But she came when I told her
I had found my guru,
Bhaktivedanta Swami, Prabhupāda.
And that I wanted to follow him.
And then she said, “Why don’t you be a Christian priest?”
I told her that I have found my guru and I want to be taught by someone who knows the science.
And she said, why don’t you that when you are old?
I said, how long do I have to live?
She started crying!
No mother and father want to think how long their child will live!
Then how can I say how long I would live, I said.
I have to take this chance now!
So then she started chanting four rounds.
And she started staying in an apartment near our temple in New Orleans, USA.
So practically I have also a devotee who is a Christian nun
and I told her that she can chant the name of Lord Jesus.
She was chanting, Jesus Christ, Jesus Christ, Christ, Christ, Jesus Jesus!
She thought it is almost like the Sanskrit, why don’t I try the Sanskrit?
So she started chanting Hare Kṛṣṇa, Hare Kṛṣṇa, Kṛṣṇa Kṛṣṇa, Hare Hare, Hare Rāma, Hare Rāma, Rāma Rāma, Hare Hare!
and she realized it was the same like chanting the name of Jesus.
But Hare Kṛṣṇa was more powerful!
Christians say, Father, Son and the Holy Ghost.
Who is the Father?
We say the Father is Kṛṣṇa.
He has unlimited names.
And then my mother saw in the Bible, St. Johns,
that Jesus said, I have many flocks
and you are one of them,
but there are many others,
they don’t look like you.
So you can also say that we are one of the flocks of Lord Jesus.
You try the process and see if that process works for you.
If it does, then very good!
We are not saying anything negative.
You just chant Hare Kṛṣṇa if it works!
Practice bhakti-yoga and see if it works!
Lord Jesus said, first commandment is “love God”,
with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind.
I didn’t do that before I came to Kṛṣṇa consciousness!
I loved other things! Ha!
We cannot talk about!
After coming to Kṛṣṇa consciousness, I learnt to love Kṛṣṇa!
So, hope that you will be successful in practicing bhakti-yoga.
Category: [Emotions / Enthusiasm], [Emotions / Faith]
I was wondering how we develop the same guru-niṣṭhā that Vṛndāvana dāsa Ṭhākura had for Lord Nityānanda?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-09-02
Jayapatākā Swami: It is just causeless mercy!
We see that Vṛndāvana dāsa Ṭhākura, he offered prayers to Lord Caitanya and Lord Nityānanda.
So, that is the devotional process called vandanam.
Offering prayers, obeisances.
So, by desiring, praying for, by Their mercy, it can be achieved.
Many devotees have a desire to join ISKCON full time and dedicate their lives for Śrīla Prabhupāda. However, because of the situations in the world or in the family or personal life, they are sometimes on the borderline wondering whether I should or I should not. So what is your message to them Mahārāja so that they can freely develop that faith and courage that if I simply serve Kṛṣṇa and Śrīla Prabhupāda, nothing else is to be taken care, everything Kṛṣṇa will help. Can you give them that courage and help? Hare Kṛṣṇa!
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-12-05
Jayapatākā Swami: As the co-minister for congregational preaching,
naturally I would like to see
not only the temple devotees but other devotees who are in congregations,
that they are all working to help the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement.
And of course, when I joined there was really only – either you are a temple devotee or you are …!
I don’t think it is like that now.
You be a temple devotee or a married devotee or whatever,
you can still help, you can still be a very significant force.
I mean, the person who is repeating me,
his name is Acintya Caitanya dāsa,
he is a gṛhastha.
His wife is very active in preaching.
He has two sons.
One of them is already very fixed up in book distribution.
In 1973 in the lecture that Śrīla Prabhupāda gave at his Vyāsa-pūjā in London,
he said that his guru, Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura who was the son of Śrīla Bhaktivinoda Ṭhākura,
and he wanted all the gṛhastha devotees that you should have ācāryas as your children.
You should all become paramahaṁsas.
So, rather than thinking this devotee can become a full-timer, others too bad!
Use everybody,
naturally I was a full-timer and the advantage that I have is can give all my time to Kṛṣṇa.
But, there is a lecture by Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura
where he says that a man should accept a wife who is more spiritual advanced
and a woman should accept a husband who is more spiritual advanced.
That is not what people look at today.
They see if she is a beautiful woman,
what education she has
and other things.
But spiritual advancement, we don’t think about that.
But that is the thing that Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura said.
In the 8th canto of the Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam,
there is the fight between Gajendra and the crocodile.
Because Gajendra was a land animal,
when he was in the water,
the crocodile was winning
and gradually the elephant was getting weaker.
So in the purport, Śrīla Prabhupāda said
that Kṛṣṇa consciousness means
we are declaring war against material nature
and to fight in the war,
one needs to be very strong,
sensually strong.
It is not the same for everyone.
Someone may be better as a vairāgī,
someone may be stronger as a gṛhastha.
The real thing is that we should be fighting to establish Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
So, maybe people are sitting on the fence,
they should see what is their nature?
So they should think whatever it is, if their nature is to be married, or their nature is to be a vairāgī,
they should fully engage in Kṛṣṇa’s service.
If they are married, their partner should be equally enthusiastic to preach,
otherwise what is the use?
That is an interesting thing.
Of course, if you want your parents and everyone to agree,
it may happen.
But in my case it did not happen
and I said yesterday in my talk that my father said he would turn me over to the American Army,
and let me die in Vietnam.
India was not for this war.
And so I asked Śrīla Prabhupāda, “What I should do?”
He said, “Better you join Kṛṣṇa’s army”
and that is what I did.
I am still a member of Kṛṣṇa’s army!
So here, I have seen many families, where the father and mother are initiated, the children are initiated.
But, still I guess they are a minority.
But in India some are like that.
But generally, it is like one airliner crashed in the Northern Pacific.
One who passed, the parents said, “Oh, we spent so much money on our son trying to go to America for education,
now who will take care of us in our old age?”
That was their concern!
You see, it is like a business,
they paid for the education of their child,
and they want the child to give them money.
So some parents are like that.
Some parents are very affectionate,
I don’t say everyone is like that.
I mean, of course, some people would feel very bad.
But ultimately, we have to make our own choice.
This is like, mother and father of Lord Caitanya, Jagannātha Miśra and Śacī Mātā,
the older brother of Lord Caitanya,
He took sannyāsa.
They were feeling, “Oh!” rejected.
“Our son, He left the family and would not get married and all that.”
Because of your son taking sannyāsa, unlimited members of your family got liberated.
Of course, they were all liberated souls.
And they realized that what he did was for their benefit.
But then they were worried that their other son would also take sannyāsa.
So He promised,
“I have no such intention!”
Anyway, I hope that everybody in this room, no matter what, are going to preach Kṛṣṇa consciousness fully.
How old are you?
73 years (Ṣaḍbhuja Prabhu)
So what do you want to share with all these young leaders?
He helped build this Temple of the Vedic Planetarium!
Ṣaḍbhuja Prabhu: Looking around me here seeing all these wonderful, young devotees, fresh looking actually,
reminds me when I was young, but not anymore!
All I can say to them is that you just practice Kṛṣṇa consciousness to the best of your ability.
Some of you will be temple devotees, some of you will be gṛhasthas on the outskirts,
but still under one umbrella of Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
So whichever works for you in the beginning accept it.
In the future, you probably will all be in the temples,
but for now just don’t let go of Kṛṣṇa consciousness at all.
Stick to this wonderful program that you are having
and continue preaching and spreading Kṛṣṇa consciousness just like Mahārāja said.
Hare Kṛṣṇa!
Jayapatākā Swami: Ṣaḍbhuja Prabhu, he is a gṛhastha,
but has dedicated his life for Kṛṣṇa consciousness
and you can see
what a beautiful building this is.
He has done many services.
And if you have seen the samādhi temple
he has designed some of the artwork of the samādhi temple.
He was the builder of the samādhi.
So, the question is not if you join full-time or you get married.
Even if you are married, you should not give up Kṛṣṇa consciousness
and the advantage of course of being a brahmacārī or whatever,
is that you don’t have any other thing
to think about.
But as I said,
it depends on what each person’s nature is, it may be different.
We should be committed to serving,
no matter what.
So, the next generation, I often feel that the kind of affection and loyalty and dedication like a sold-out-servant as all of you are, I feel that is greatly lacking in the next generation, Mahārāja. So, we feel in our generation many people, they get initiated officially and after that they do not feel such a great commitment to Śrīla Prabhupāda’s mission and in expanding the movement the way. I am sure that your expanding the movement has happened because you are strongly rooted in Śrīla Prabhupāda. So how can the grand disciples of Śrīla Prabhupāda have such feelings for him and a sense of belonging with him and thereby a sense of love and dedication for his mission?
Questioner: Rādhe Śyāma Dāsa
Date: 2023-12-05
Jayapatākā Swami: Śrīla Prabhupāda kī jaya!
You see Śrīla Prabhupāda, he gave us the science of bhakti-yoga.
So everyone should read Śrīla Prabhupāda’s books, attend the Śrīla Prabhupāda daily guru-pūjā.
I mean, what does it take for people to be committed to Śrīla Prabhupāda?
When I first came to Kṛṣṇa consciousness, we did not have many books.
So Śrīla Prabhupāda said we could read Professor Sanyal’s Teachings of Lord Caitanya
and there was a section on Haridāsa Ṭhākura.
He said that whenever he would think of anything else, he would chant louder.
So I was a new bhakta
and I had so many thoughts.
So I would end up chanting louder and louder!
All the devotees, they went to Śrīla Prabhupāda and said, “This Bhakta Jay, he shouts so loudly while chanting
and we cannot concentrate!”
Śrīla Prabhupāda called me
and he asked me, “Why you chant so loud?”
I told him,
he said, “Hmmm, that is not bad,
but you are disturbing all the other devotees.
So I give you permission to chant in the park.”
That was the pre joggers’ period, now we have many joggers.
I saw birds, and squirrels.
They all heard the holy name when I was shouting!
Anyway, by Kṛṣṇa’s mercy devotional service is so nice
that we start experiencing some bliss
and I don’t think that is a big secret.
Anyone who does Kṛṣṇa consciousness sincerely,
they can also experience bliss!
I have seen some new people
coming and they are very blissful and very happy.
We should be you know, grateful
that Śrīla Prabhupāda gave us such a nice process
that works.
It is not a theory or just a faith, it works!
If you do it then you will not regret
it and then you feel grateful
that Śrīla Prabhupāda gave us such a wonderful thing.
If he hadn’t come, he hadn’t preached, where would we be today!
I wrote a song yadi prabhupāda nā haita, tabe kī haita.
If there was no Śrīla Prabhupāda, what would there be today?
It is something terrifying,
to think back,
what I was
and what I am today,
what bliss I am experiencing by following Śrīla Prabhupāda’s instructions.
I think everybody should realize
that what they have
is all due to ultimately Śrīla Prabhupāda starting this movement.
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s disciples are very enthusiastically serving their Śrīla Prabhupāda with surrender, dedication and commitment. How do we as his grand disciple develop this level of faith and surrender?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-03-13
Jayapatākā Swami: I hope they are serving Śrīla Prabhupāda enthusiastically
and I hope that the grand disciples will also serve guru and Gaurāṅga enthusiastically.
And that depends on their sincerity.
If they are sincere they will do that. 
What is the best way to preach and is it offensive to preach to the faithless, so how do you preach then?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-09-04
Jayapatākā Swami: You see we don’t tell the glories of the holy name to a faithless person.
If you say, oh, you chant the holy name it will destroy all your sins.
He is a faithless person he does not believe in sin.
You just tell them chant Hare Kṛṣṇa and be happy,
not going through all the glories of the holy name.
Just tell them chant Hare Kṛṣṇa and be happy!
Eat this prasāda, bhel-purī!
It was very nice Gujarati prasāda today.
Category: [Emotions / Faith], [Sādhanā / Preaching]
When we encounter people of other religions or faith who question ISKCON and our faith in Kṛṣṇa, how should we respond or act?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-09-01
Jayapatākā Swami: Every person is different.
And if they are open or they are challenging,
I asked Trivikrama Mahārāja, what to do, in the Free Speech Alley in the Baton Rouge, he said, challenge them. Louisiana State University.
He told me, just ask them a question they cannot answer.
They say you believe in karma, this that and the other, you say well people are born crippled, why?
They say that is a mystery.
So I asked them another question and it just blew them away.
But I met a nice man he was favorable, recently here in Dallas
and so I said how Jesus said we should love God.
That is the first commandment.
You know little bit about different religions, so you can tell that.
And how bhakti-yoga means the science of how to love God.
Like Śrīla Prabhupāda met some ayatollahs in Tehran
and he was very happy. They discovered that saying Allah hu Akbar
means paraṁ satyaṁ dhīmahi.
I met one devotee, people they said you are a Hindu,
they wanted to argue.
I said I am a devotee of God.
Then he came around and said there is one God,
all religions worship the same God.
We believe there is only one God and all religions worship the one God.
But they call Him by different names
it depends how people approach you, and if they are open or not.
Hare Kṛṣṇa!
Category: [Emotions / Faith], [Other philosophies]
You mentioned how to increase faith in Lord Caitanya, you said people have faith in Kṛṣṇa, they don’t have faith in Lord Caitanya. Can you please elaborate on that?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-09-02
Jayapatākā Swami: Last night, someone asked this question in the temple.
And were you there?
There are different ways we can answer this.
You see Rādhārāṇī created Navadvīpa dhāma
and She played on the flute.
Lord Kṛṣṇa thought who was playing on the flute so beautifully!
Who, who is that? Who is that?
He came and He saw it was Rādhārāṇī,
and She had made a beautiful holy dhāma of nine islands.
And then Lord Kṛṣṇa combined with Rādhārāṇī,
took Rādhārāṇī’s heart
and He took Her complexion.
And thus He became the united form of Rādhā and Kṛṣṇa of Gaurāṅga Mahāprabhu!
And He is the form of Kṛṣṇa who is most merciful!
We asked Śrīla Prabhupāda, Kṛṣṇa makes us fast till midnight, but on Rādhāṣṭamī we fast only till midday.
Why is that?
Śrīla Prabhupāda said, Rādhārāṇī is very merciful.
So it is very hard to get Kṛṣṇa’s mercy.
Normally He gives love of Kṛṣṇa to those who fully surrender to Him.
But Lord Caitanya He would give out mercy without considering who is qualified, who is not qualified.
If ask it, you get it.
Even some people they did not want it but they got it! Ha!
So if one understands that Kṛṣṇa’s most merciful form is Lord Caitanya, then actually they naturally they want to have love for Lord Caitanya.
In Mumbai, they have Nitāi-Gaura, they have Śrī Rādhā-Rāsabihārī, Lalitā Viśākhā, and they have Sītā-Rāma Lakṣmaṇa and Hanumān,
as worshipable Deities.
Of course, as dioramas, they have Tukārāma, Viṭṭala and many others,
Narasiṁhadeva, but the worshipable Deities are those three altars.
Many people crowd around Rādhā-Rāsabihārī and Sītā-Rāma.
But not so many around Nitāi-Gaura.
I was explaining in the class that by the mercy of Nitāi-Gaura we get the mercy of Rādhā-Rāsabihārī and Sītā-Rāma.
So we should all be praying to Lord Caitanya to get the mercy of all other Deities.
If you don’t, it is very hard to get Their mercy.
But if you do, it is very easy to get Their mercy.
So I was telling earlier today, how Lord Caitanya came down especially in the Golden Age which is supposed to start 5000 years after the beginning of Kali-yuga,
this is mentioned in the Brahma-vaivarta Purāṇa.
The Golden Age lasts for ten thousand years.
I was reading also recently, at the end of 9th canto and the beginning of the 10th canto how Lord Kṛṣṇa He would have the demoniac forces got puffed up and fight with each other and kill each other.
So it seems that for no reason all over the world war is going on.
So, all these things are diminishing the demoniac forces
and then naturally Lord Caitanya is giving out His mercy freely.
So we should naturally, if you are appreciating what Lord Caitanya does, then how can you not help but love him.
Haribol Gaurāṅga! Gaurāṅga! Gaurāṅga! Gaurāṅga!
You mentioned that considering himself as a doer, an ordinary being could not understand God, could not see Caitanya Mahāprabhu as God. Could you please give some explanation on that as how I consider myself a doer and that stops me from seeing God?
Questioner: Devotee
Date: 2023-12-04
Jayapatākā Swami: So, in the Bhagavad-gītā there is a verse
that everything is done by the material nature,
but the living entity thinks that he is the doer.
kartāham iti manyate.
So if we see that we simply desire and the Lord provides us,
that he is the doer - that material energy is the doer,
we are simply desiring.
So He remembers what we desired
and He provides us the opportunities.
So if someone thinks he is the doer,
then he can’t really understand the Supreme Lord
who is actually doing everything for us.